In Ghanaian societies, men are mostly criticized when they turn to go in for a woman or lady with a child or more. With the reasons being that such women are not marriageable materials.
I give you five (5) practical reasons why you shouldn’t marry a born one lady;
1. Wrong feelings: When one gets into a relationship with such a lady, the man will always have some wrong feelings as she may be suspected of having something to do with her child’s father.
2. Sense of loss: Mostly children who are being raised by single moms tend to believe that something is really missing in their lives. So when a father comes in it turns to hard for the child to accept that new dad
3. Problems accepting new relationships: Such women find it very difficult to trust a man so it turns to affect her new relationship.
4. Family acceptance: Born one woman is not easily accepted by the families of the new guy or husband since they are with the belief that the lady has lives some uncultured lives in her past.
5. High cost of living: Ghanaian men today don’t want ladies who will come into their lives as liabilities. The case is worsened when the lady comes with a child.
Source: TheBBCghana.Com
